Living in your own home gives a sense of security and happiness, which is crucial for most seniors. In fact, around 90% of US seniors don’t want to leave their homes when they get older, so assisted living becomes an excellent idea to consider. But how can you introduce this idea to your parents? Here’s how to do it!

Introducing the idea of assisted living

One of the most challenging things about assisted living is starting the conversation. You don’t want to bring it out of nowhere, so a good rule of thumb is to discuss any future plans with your parents. See what they would like to do if they are ok with having someone assist them with daily tasks.

If they are ok with that, you can start sharing your ideas and even a potential task list that the assisted care professional can do for your loved one. Leave any pressure, and restart the conversation in a few weeks. The idea here is to allow your parents to lead and share their opinion.

Understand your loved one’s requirements

Switching to assisted living is a massive deal for your loved one. That’s why you don’t want to pressure them in any way; instead accept their decision. Some parents will not be ok with such an idea right from the start. Despite needing assistance and support, they are still independent and want to do things in their way.

You can also invite some other family members and talk about this topic. It can also help you see whether other family members can assist your parents and if assisted living can be the right idea. Talking with your relatives is very important, as you try to narrow down the right decision.

Narrowing down all the details

When you present the idea of assisted living to your parents, it’s important to showcase different options so they can choose the ideal one. Moreover, you want to present the costs to your parents as well. And while you’re here, you also want to know your role and any other expenses that incur.

It’s just as important to monitor the progression of any disease your parents have and what level of care they need. Talking with the entire family and settling down on a certain care level is extremely helpful, and it can deliver an exceptional result in the long term.

Conclusion

The assisted living topic can be a very challenging one for a family. In many situations, parents will not be ok with the idea of assisted living and will try to seek an alternative. You want to know the ups and downs of assisted living while also narrowing down the steps to implement it properly.

Additionally, you don’t want to force your loved one into feeling pressured; instead, you want to slowly introduce the idea and establish a plan. You can also ask for assistance from an assisted living business, the American Seniors Housing Association, or any similar local organization!

 

By Ali E.